Top 5 Topics You can Write about:Chapter 2

As we previously discussed some methods and topics (especially for bloggers) which are very good to kick start up the writing now we will discuss about the typeof writings. Yes, that's true! Writing has also variouskinds of types. In college days and even now whenever you will ask to someone "Hey! What type of writing do you like?" they will answer in a sporadic manner as "I like-fiction, romance, Mills & Boon, biography, poetry, slang content writing & bla bla bla...".

So now you can see the difference, people don't know about types and categories of writing and that is the reason why they couldn't come up with an idea about which topic they should write. So first of all, here I'll give you the brief introduction of categories of writing, please note that it is not an educational category structure but a simplified categorization designed by me that includes both traditional writing phenomena and modern writing concepts.

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So first of all I am going to write the forms of writing that you all know very well-

Fiction - Based on hypothetical conditions and events as "The Invisible Man" by H.G. Wells, "Famous Five" by Enid Blyton "Twilight" & other novels such as published by "Mills & Boon", so you can understand these are just stories which have no relation with a living or dead person as though they could be inspired from real lives or theories or inspire the world such as "Time Machine" of H.G. Wells inspired many movies' stories like "Back To The Future", "17 Again"and many stories published by Marvel & DC Comics. Apart from this, in Hindi literature you would like many stories written by Jai Shankar Prasad- "Kankaal", Munshi Premchand-"Gau Daan" & many others by Sharat Chandra Chattopadhyaya

If fiction is like based on a "true story" while you can't decide the authenticity of story then you can refer it as 'Semi Fiction'.

Non-fiction - This category includes the real stories as it is not a vivid of someone's thinking only, but a real opinion inspired by a true incident and conditions. This generally includes informative work and writer takes responsibility of authenticity. Non-fiction is-

• Biography
• Auto-biography
• Travel books
• Reminiscence
• Historic facts and incidents
• Journals
• Essays and articles on an issue or art
• This is just major types of non-fiction that you'll see in general.

Poetry- Poetry is something that is considered the very highest form of literary art. It needs imagination and good knowledge of Vocab and Grammar. It uses aesthetic and rhythmic qualities of literature. Manypoets are there that you should read like: Oscar Wilde, William Shakespeare, Mahadevi Verma(Chayavadi Yug), Suryakant Tripathi Nirala (Gandhiwadi), Jai Shankar Prasad (Ojaswi Dhaara), Ghalib (Sher-O-Shayari).

Traditional writing styles are very basics and famous style & one who understands the concepts of the writing, they can easily act as a wordsmith, they can blend the literature in a creative form and derive other new styles as Ghalib, Mahadevi Verma and William Shakespeare.

These are some things that you need to know about literature before getting started. Next time I'll share modern writing styles with you as content writing. So give a sigh of a bliss and sit tight to read more.

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Top 5 Topics You can Write about:Chapter 1

It occurred to me generally that when I sit to write sometime my mind goes numb. Whenever I want to embrace, I have this pen in my one hand with a white paper, on which I write generally. I just keep sitting for minutes and I find nothing! This happens generally, for a couple of days or more, we know what to write about, but after that a phase come when we get all fired up about lack of topics. We get empty handed when we sit to strike some keys on keyboard for our blog. There are ways which can help to avoid this cumbersome situation. Observe some pointers below to know what exactly I am telling you.

What should I write about?

1. In what type of writing I do a very good job? 
2. What type of writing does make people so interested in articles so that I can connect my interests and talent to that specific category, if possible?

First question's answer will lead you to an area of your expertise. Answer of second question will indicate the proper planning you need to get your desired audience more in numbers.

Finally, you will find a lot of topics that you can write on. So we have seen that problem  is solved in just a few steps, but is that it! No, it's not, still, problem could be persisted, you need to-

1. Read famous blogs like "Huffington post" and many more, related to various subjects in order to learn how to choose a nice topic, if you like an idea of a blog that you read somewhere then just steal the idea and make your own content with that idea.
2. Ask yourself that as blog follower how & what you want to read, provide the material in the same way to your viewers.
3. See Image below that has names of famous blogs and websites, read them and learn.

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For your start, if you are going to begin a blog, these are the topics that are hot trending on the internet.

1. Pros and Cons posts about something, for example: Pros and cons of having friends, Advantage and disadvantages of using gadgets etc.
2. Tutorial posts are most useful when you have a expertise in an area like, How to prevent yourself from hacking, To do good style hair work in 10 steps etc.
3. Review posts, which includes review and critiques about some movie, thing, place or anything that can be measured in term of quality. Generally people like too much theses kind of posts as they are so informative and based on evaluation and experience.
4. Live blogging posts are very famous these days. People like to read about very concurrent event about which everyone is talking out there!, for example- A live blog on upcoming movies, tv shows, football matches etc.
5. A Vlog is a new concept. It is a blog but contains more videos than written articles. Try to upload original content rather than mixing up some videos.

So these are the famous blog ideas are revolving around us but that's not it! next time I will come up with more fun ideas not only about blogs but with writing a book and many other writing styles, so stay in touch and keep reading...

Start your blog & Have a good start!!!

Habits That Never Go Out of Style

"Habits are habits", they never spare us so easily. Interests and hobbies are good things but what is habit and why does it stick with us so badly? Are habits always so bad thing? , oh well.... there are too many questions arise in one's mind when we talk about issues related to us and 'Habit' are one of them. lets find some answers first.

Habit is a Bad Habit?

No man and no habit is bad. It is the outcomes of a habit that decide if habit is useful or not for a person. For example: Habit of liquor is a good thing for your government sometimes as it contributes in economy in form of tax on every bad bottle of alcohol you purchase but it is a bad thing for your liver health! even you are healthy after drinking it, still scientifically its food value is null so actually you pay lot of money daily and for nothing!! so promise to leave this habit this instance. If you are having a habit of wake up early then it will not a benefit for others and not many people observe it around you but you will have very good benefits from it like a better health, better efficiency and more time to accomplish your day tasks.

So next time please don't blame your habits but try to keep up with habits which are prolific for you.

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What is the difference between hobby, interest and a habit?

Hobby- A habit of useful acts that you do daily because of your intense interest. These are generally observed by people around you and very prolific, sometimes career-wise also! Writing, gardening, reading, playing, watching movies or seasons, being a gamer, climb mountains, collecting rare things, helping others all kind of hobbies you can see in peoples around the world.

Interests- these aren't habits, it is just things which you like to do or want to experience on some point of life but it is generally not regular like a hobby.

Habit- when an act become inseparable part of your life simply it is known as habit. Habit is nothing to do with good or bad. Everyone has habits. The result of habit matters most in one's life but sometime some habits are just neither useful nor bad for anyone which is so interesting, we'll discuss in last of the article.

As our brain accept those acts which we like to do again and again because our brain chemical 'Dopamine' drives us to do so. We feel intense pleasure to do those things like drinking that feels like it relaxes us and same for smoking, these are bad habits according to people but this is applicable for drinking tea and coffee also, those aren't good for health either but they have some clinically proven benefits also. The case of liquor and smoking weeds are the worst as you pay for a material that ultimately ruin you and sometimes everyone's life related to you. A very general habit that sometimes do good and bad both, is-Waking up late in the morning- it is bad as you know since very long time but study shows that most achievers of the history worked very late in night and they generally woke up very late, in our teen age it is general habit for all of us. I leave it on you that it is bad or a good habit. 

Some habits which are proved to be neither useful nor harmful are like following cases-:

1.Einstein never completely grew out of his odd habits. His chauffeur reports that he once plucked a grasshopper off the ground and ate it. He would also take his violin along on birdwatching treks, playing music with tears streaming down his face.

2.Thomas Edison’s research associates had to pass a tough interview process, which included eating a bowl of soup under the famous inventor’s eye. Edison’s soup scrutiny checked whether potential employees seasoned food before tasting it. If they added salt to soup they hadn’t tried, Edison automatically dismissed them. The test aimed to weed out those who started out with too many assumptions.

3.An employee reported that Charles Dickens couldn’t stand to have a hair out of place, so the writer kept his comb nearby and ran it through his hair hundreds of times a day.

4.Steve jobs dabbled his feet into toilet to soak for relieving his work stress.

So do you see how habits can change you sometimes and sometimes they are nothing but a part of daily routine like we eat and breath. Finally we can say that have a habit but always aware of their outcomes, that way you can keep up with your habit in a good sense.

Stay Habitual!

How to Rewire Your Brain

Change, is tough many times, very beautiful sometimes. How is the 'Change' for you that depends how it pays you, do you think like that? 

In my opinion 'Change' is always beautiful. How it works for you depends on how do you see it, in other words, ask a question from yourself, how do you think about something when you come to know that it has been changed?

I don't want to fence around the main issue, so lets come to the point. Do you have a problem with changing environment? Do you practice same schedule everyday from morning to evening and you don't want to get out of it for some time even when you get the opportunity? Do you have habits that you want to leave, but you just can't because you are habitual and you can't think anything else? Do you not want to take risks when it should be taken? Do you afraid of change?

Well, there are too many questions, but answer is one- Your deepest desires, fears and stubborn thinking have been overcoming your mental and physical realms and those impede you and limit your potential to withstand change.

Believe me, you are not the only one who is suffering. Some think that they can't wake up early, some think that reducing weight, to get on top in class &organization or driving a specific vehicle is very much impossible to do for them, many a think that it is too tough to leave bad habits like smoking or drinking liquor. In one sentence neuroscience would say "You ALL ARE WRONG!"

The truth is "You can be anything you want and you can do anything you think". Everything is controlled by supreme body- The brain. Rewire your brain and you could withstand with any change without any negative feeling.

Accept the Change: 

Believe it or not but change is imminent and it is always beautiful. You leave your school and start in college, one day you leave your college as well and you start the next morning in a well known organization. You have to drive home the point to your brain that change is good, welcome it heartily and work for a new future.

It is all mental: 

Try to understand, but whatever you think and you do it is because of the influence of your brain. As soon as you learn this truth, you come to know that you can regulate your desires and your body.

According to a study when you get habitual of something your brain make a path which reminds you again and again that thing and resists the change. All you have to do is to break that path by trying something new each time you think of that same old thing.

Control your view and attitude: 

What do you think about vivid you see in front of you, decides how you are going to react. For example: if a person has faith in a teacher and one's attitude is positive towards that teacher than he would catch up quickly all the lessons that are taught by the teacher. Change your attitude towards a thing and you'll see how magically you accomplish tasks which seemed impossible earlier

Rewire your brain, don't resist yourself, but do it like you can do it very easily with your will: 

Determination is good, but you still can't do the things you want. It is because you are getting very hard on yourself in the name of 'Determination'. In Chinese methodology it has been observed that energy 'Chi' should be controlled as not to store it but to control its flow. Exactly you should do the same, don't push yourself too hard but do a work like you are doing it from the very beginning and with infinite peace in your mind.

So next time when you take a task or face a change, then Remember "To control everything around you, first control yourself "

Have a Great Rewire!  

Why You Should Practice Yoga

Yoga is not just an ancient method to make better  life.  

What is Yoga? 

It depends on the level you want to go. "The deeper you go, the greater you know" this is how this ancient method works. The eastern Asiatic land which was the center of great knowledge, discovered the method which connects the forgotten path between mental and physical organs.

But Is that it?

There should be a possible and wide explanation which suggests that why one should practice yoga.

Ostensibly in today's world, when everyone is so busy in making their lives, even if they do yoga that is only for finding inner peace and to stay alive, obviously everyone is trying badly for peace and life. But many are very far from the actual concept of yoga and its meaning. The meaning of Yoga lies in its aim.

Yoga is not only a method to live longer or to ameliorate the efficiency, but it is a way of life to discover the limits of life. It is a key to unlock infinite possibilities of the body which is an instrument of the soul. The soul is free, invulnerable and has an existence in energy form as per law of 'Conservation of energy'. That also described in Bhagwat Geeta as

"nainam chindanti shastrani

nainam dahati pavakah

na chainam kledayanty apo

na sosayati marutah"

Śrī-ādināthāya namo'stu tasmai yenopadiṣṭā haṭhayogavidyā|

Vibhrājate pronnatarājayogamāroḍhumicchoradhirohiṇīva||1||

"Svātmārāma states clearly that the science of Haṭhayoga (consisting in postures, breathings, purifying actions, etc.) is a stairway leading lastly to Rājayoga (Royal Yoga). Royal Yoga is Patañjali's Yoga (even though there are currently certain Rājayoga-based systems somewhat different from that of Patañjali). In a word, by means of postures, breathings, seals, purifying actions, etc. one gets ready for ascending to a higher stage of Yoga known as Rājayoga. Then, the goal of Haṭhayoga is not merely to make the body agile or thin, but to prepare us to bear the tremendous impact of Royal Yoga, which is full of divine revelations. This is the Haṭhayoga's purpose just as it is taught traditionally. Nowadays, many Haṭhayoga teachers seem to have forgotten about it. They teach this ancient science as merely being a means to fight against the stress, fat, etc. It is true that these by-products are obtainable through Haṭhayoga practice, however this is not the real goal. The foremost purpose is to be a stairway for human being to attain to the Royal Yoga heights. In short, the real goal is to achieve Supreme Peace."

(Read more: http://www.city-data.com/forum/religion-spirituality/260342-sanskrit-quotes-translation-explanation-yoga-spirituality.html#ixzz3RnV4trfB)

"Sri Krishna said: The soul can never be cut to pieces by any weapon, nor burned by fire, nor moistened by water, nor withered by the wind."(Bhagwat Gita: Chapter Two verse 23)"

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Well, if that is true, then why aren't we free?

 This answer can't be explained on the base of modern science, but what do we know is our ancestors created a way of communication of the body to the soul, 'Pranayam', 'Yog', 'Sadhna' all are the different pieces of planning to reach on one goal. That goal known as 'Moksha-The state of being total freedom from the life cycle of this Samsara', also known as 'Nirvana'.

Atha haṭhayogapradīpikā|

So as it stated that the final goal of Yoga is to achieve 'Supreme Peace' that leads to us path of  'Moksha'.

But why we are discussing this while we all know all we want is a peaceful,prosperous & happy life?    

Of course you need to know more on this topic if you are passionate to know the secrets of legends who get heights of life where anyone can reach but only a few did it. There are plenty of examples like this in the real world as Mahatma Gandhi, Swami Vivekananda and many more. Everyone knows about astounding efficiency of these remarkable people. The brightness of their face (Tej on Mukh) and the way they emitted positive vibes around themselves was the result of their 'Yama-Niyama' and regularity in practice of different 'Yoga' and 'Dhyan' poses. 

For a good and positive life on this conflicting planet you need 'Yoga' but as for people who always in the quest for something new, adventures and the ultimate truth of life, this is the path of the answer.

Yoga, Dhyan & Sadhna make balance between our mental and physical desires in a way that no processremains involuntary when it comes to controlling the mental and physical acts like a control on your heartbeat. Further, it connects your mind-soul to your body as it passes all the body control to your mind and make a channel for incoming and outgoing energy flow. Most importantly 'Yoga' magically establishes a communication between you and all other physical and dimensional realms of this universe on a subatomic level. You suddenly become so envisaged as you consist an excellent sixth sense.

This is so far an unsolved mystery that what can a human body accomplish, Yoga certainly a key, many practitioners have different opinion about this, but one thing is certain that one day or another, human kind will come to know that science is beyond that we descry. Physics, atoms and invisible forces all have an unseen side which is bigger and to see it the instrument-our body has become more and more efficient.

So Stay Yogi, Stay Healthy!

I will Rise Again

Short Poem: I will rise again

I failed but not laid,
I think I delayed..
I don't cry,
I can descry..
I will rise again,
I begin again..
I am in my way,
I will make my way....

Remember:
 "Success is not last, failure is not fatal"
"Failure means delay not defeat"

Top 5 Social Networking Things That Screwed Your Security Up

Oh well you are really interested about your new notifications, mentions, what everyone else doing and to tell people what are you thinking, reading, doing and everything. You ever thought that your these sharing on social sites can bring a debacle sometime which would be unpredictable of course. Let's talk about 5 top most sharing content that leads to invasion of privacy:

Check-ins

It's really wonderful when we hangout at some fun place famous for astounding dishes, lightening or enormous amusement. We get so excited that we want to let every one know that where we are with an Intention like 'look losers where am I, you are probably at home and I am having so much fun now jealous to me'. You forgot that time that if your privacy setting is not appropriate or you are having a person with malicious intentions then this is a invitation to him that he can come to rob you or your house if you leave it alone. Hangout freely, you can share it with your friends after you get to home safely. 

It is similarly applicable when you go on vacations. Try not to hype your whereabouts when you are on trip, Sometimes Secrecy is the best way to enjoy the trip without any headaches.

Geotags For Pictures

This is kinda' fun for them who want to capture and share every moment online on Instagram, pinterest, facebook or twitter. Obviously if they are the part of this online world they'd be using Android, Microsoft or IOS. The similar things about all phone platform is they provide Geo-Tagging feature that when you take picture your mobile set your location with your picture if it set to do so. 

Oh my!! you just told your current location to everyone, not all but person which has some business to do with you can come along after you! Also that can be your boss whom you just told that your some family member has been in some problem and you have to leave at that instance. 

Job Profile And Current Project Details

You shared where do you work, also that is shown to everyone on the top of your profile. That may be good for you as if you feel proud in that but beware you can't share status updates like your upcoming project or how much fired up you are about your colleagues, office or your officer. Your competitor could have been watching over you to take your place. 

Sharing Your Relationship Status

You are single or in a relationship, you don't have to mention it on profiles if you know that you are not here for any relationship or until you are not married or engaged there is no point to share your relationship status at all. You can get a stalker some time. To prevent it or to show people that you are tough you can change your relationship status to 'It's Complicated'. So stop saying people that you have a lover or not.

Don't Tell Anybody What I Am Going To Inbox About Him

Great!! you inbox some one's else's secret to somebody telling that don't say anyone without knowing that somebody now can tarnish your image and you just gave him a proof for that and also he/she can get your secrets as well from someone else. So now you fall into a dirty game of gimmick. It is a serious matter more than anything.

So these are top 5 things of countdown that screw up your privacy, invade your privacy and intervene your life. Enjoy your moments and share what is necessary but also secrecy is also sometimes a very beautiful thing to enjoy, try that.

Have a beautiful day and share it afterwards!

Latest on Instagram’s ‘InstaMeets’ in your city & Around the World

A get-together of some shutterbugs around the world, sharing their expertise, beautiful snap of nature, their pet's moment, food shots, surrounding dp and experimental acts with flicking cameras, sometimes also known as Instagrammers are ready to roll in for social event now. Yes, you heard it right! Discussion of latest social media update countdown is now coming down to this hot trendy topic of social media app Instagram's -'InstaMeets'.

What I need to know about 'InstaMeets'?

From the very beginning, Persons who gets on Instagram, have been meeting and sharing their work, techniques with each-other which directly indicates that how social media is growing beyond mobile and devices into a real world social environment where likeminded people getting closer and interacting through face to face conversation. Same as 'Tweet-up' events where many twitterati  around the globe meets one another, Instagrammers also, according to Instagram- "gathering of people coming together to connect, explore and celebrate their creativity".

How can I be a part of 'InstaMeets'?

Just one simple step and you are in! .It is really that easy. Go to meetup.com/instagram and look for current activity of meet-ups out there in your city, subsequently click on "Count me in" and invite your friends to make more fun in event. If you don't find any meet then plan one of your own and spread the word, for useful tips to plan an event see http://blog.instagram.com/tagged/instameet

Fine! I'll go but what I'll do next, what and how do people celebrate?

Go to Instagram, plan an event with friends and decide your favourite photogenic place and you are good to go!! To help people so that they can reach out to you, make a hash tag so your words will spread like wildfire. Further you can see for past InstaMeets location on "Instagram Blogs".

InstaMeets,  a latest spin-off to delight the paparazzo community. This weekend #ScotSkiMeet2015 will bring together a group of Scottish ski enthusiasts for a trip to Ben Nevis. Such a mountain meet promises more interesting photos than an urban get-together to take arty photos of pool. Don't miss to indulge in very interesting occurrence like this.   

3 Points That Describe You Are Important To Everyone.

You think you are very much wasted or feeling like not many people know you because you are not kind of big gun person. Your friends and people around, not very much concerned about you. So it all come down to one point that you are maybe not important to this world. Well Story Sitter will prove you wrong by giving 3 major points of reality.

No One Is Important More Than You 

This world is full of enchanting and talented people. Genius scientist, skilled economist, hardcore athletes, intelligent diplomats and scholars. You ever noticed that in spite of million of working key people, this nature and this world totally independent of peoples who are extra ordinary & only want name and fame or being a Richie-rich. Unlike those people mentioned above Alan Turing, Mahatma Gandhi, Mark Twain, Abraham Lincoln, Karl Marx, Steve Jobs, these some significant people of history did the same normal things in life but with a different vision that made a difference and made them very important for whole world as they brought change. Develop that vision and you'll find that how important you are for others.

Recognize Yourself

There is nothing like important or unimportant, it just a human term to fathom worth of a person, but how can we evaluate worth of a living being when we don't understand it very well. In this universe every living being and non-living thing is important like asteroids, rock, humans, plants, fungi, bacteria and even virus, everyone is important in view of nature and while according to that supreme nature everyone is worthy than who are the humans to decide whether someone is very good and important or not. Don't listen who demoralize you and don't interpret by yourself negative opinions either. Recognize your true potential and feel above all what people might think and say, only you know what you are.

Don't Be A hurdle, Be A Successor

You think that no one cares about you, but if that's true then why are you on this conflicting planet? Remember what Einstein said once "god never rolls the dice" and that's true. Superior power exists because of that no event is random, everything bonded with force and certainty is there so every living being also has some purpose on this earth as well including us. Your thinking is the biggest hurdle to knowing the limits of your true strength and purpose. You have to be a successor for a legend and to help others you need your own help first. So believe, get out of your comfort zone and be a getter rather than depicting yourself a looser.

It's never too late to know the importance of your life, Take an oath to be the real useful being for yourself, for your beloved ones and stand up for people who might need your help, Story Sitter's Best Wishes are with you on every path you choose. 

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Top 5 Ways To Kill Time

Everyone is very concerned about saving their 84,600 secs of one day they got more by the mercy of great almighty, but very few get succeed to manage all of it. But Story Sitters is here with something great and new "Top Ways To Kill Time"! Yes you heard right..We all have copious amount of time once a week, a month or a year. So here are some interesting things you can do.

Rats! These Selfies And Messages! Give A Challenge

You are very expressive about yourself and take selfies everywhere to share on Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest or Flickr or you check your phone again and again for updates as you want to be updated? you are wrong actually thinking wrong, you could be addicted to internet!, so why not take a time killing action here. Give yourself a challenge.Don't pull out your mobile from pocket for just a snap and also don't stare your mobile and note that time. Next time try to break your previous record.By this your brain will rewire itself and you will feel that there are many thing we can do without our cell phones.

Something is not 'Perfecto'

Kill Time Through Creation

Draw, paint, build, sing anything you want. Study shows that your right lobe of brain is responsible for creative thinking, strengthen it by wasting your time in random handwork. So sitting idle? than take a copy, pen and start to draw some line here and there that would trigger your mind functionality. Further try to write and draw with left hand this time if you are Right-Handed or do reverse if you are left handed to embark your mind for unlocking new limits.

Yes I know I am!

Enjoy The Party

You generally rather a party person or we say gregarious in your own words. Let's do a party but without people whom you know. Throw a party to orphanage's children or spend a little time in a national wild park and adopt a creature for care,sometime try to call some lonely nerd guy to have a talk and meal.This certainly sound bizarre and the highly one but what's the fun if party is not crazy enough, right? So try this out.   

Being A Day Dreamer Not That bad!

Don't be a day dreamer that is what say people around us, not true!. It is a proven neuro fact that our brain never sleeps and always think in an imagination dimension thus it never sit silent. Close your eyes and travel through your best dream that you want to be in. Sometime it also give purpose in this bitter world. Ready to travel through another dimension, Good,meet you there!

Why Don't Read Some Books On Killing Time

Well everyone knows that reading books is waste time for many people, believe it or not yes it is! we already knew every theory and thinking which is essential and also fiction is not real and which non fiction is real not of use very much. But then why it is a hobby for some people? To answer that ask yourself that why did you like to listen a story in your childhood and why to watch movies and seasons? Exactly! you think you know everything but you don't because you can't feel the knowledge and that means you don't have a zeal to live a life with all the knowledge you've as for a instance all know that we shouldn't think negative ever but how many of us follow that honestly? Books, movies, inspired talks inspires us and have an important role to turn our life towards a good point with optimism.

We've a lot of time, So ready to kill some!?

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5 Ways To Impress People Around You

We wonder what is special about some people that wherever they go, they always surrounded by people. Obviously every person want to life in the same way, at that instance, the very first question pops up in our mind is how to be so impressive or simply we say, How we impress others?

Lot of Money? A reputable career? Being famous? Alluring Face? Too much show-off?

If your answer are those above written things then wait for a moment, ask someone who have all those things you would be surprised to know that feelings we get from above things are loneliness, no 'me' time and nearly invisible for people around us, slagging you off behind your back and beauty is not long lasting. These are certainly the things that makes you hot topic among people but that's temporary and not truly impressive traits in every case. Impression always, one is good that remains forever after one meet.Also it is inevitable that there are many peoples who have above things but they still extremely impressive. Evidently they know what others know lesser or not at all.There is no shortcut but to learn things responsible for an impressive personality.

Observe these following steps and that'd help you to get all the mentioned things with an impression-:

Believe In Yourself, Do What Are You Good At

If you want that people get impress with you that means they believe in you that you are the best. For that first you have to believe in yourself and you have to take step forward for work in which you can do best. It is obvious that if you would give your best effort with your talent, result will be the best in your favor accordingly and you'll be the trend among people because of the same reason.

Listen And Speak

You really are a person who listens everyone meticulously and give importance to everyone's opinion, express this quality of yours by listen silently! As they say "Silence talks more than noise". People feel thank you for listening to them. Once you heard their issue now it's time to respond positively and try to be optimistic during talk, give them positive vibes and let them know that you care for their opinions as well. You will see soon that how everyone begin to share talks with you.

Smile And Be Cheerful

How do you like someone with a angry or lament face every time you get to see them? Of course you would find it annoying. The point is clear, put a smile on your face and people just come to you for greetings first without any logical reason & that's the beauty of a smiley cheerful face! So be happy and also this will keep you healthy in both ways, physically and socially.  

Be Honest, Maintain Individuality

There is a concept very famous now a days among personality development classes and yes very hard to follow, known as "Fence Sitting".Fence sitting is all about to deal in social culture but with in a limit. It's too tough to say negative about some opinion with which you can't agree because you know it is wrong? You support a person just because he is friend to you and you don't want to lose him? Well it is bad news for you because then you are not longer honest with yourself and you are all set to lost the prerogative to make a point on your front. Remember you are in existence and you can't consider something right which is totally wrong about someone or you.

Second thing comes individuality. Don't take too much interest to discuss someone's private matter and don't be the part of a gossip group. Gimmick leads you to a wasteful personality. Next time advice to nosy neighbors to mind their own work and they will come to know how honest, faithful and man of self respect are you. 

Get Some 'Me' Time

Last time when did you go for a hangout with you,do you remember? If your answer is no then what really you need is a break! with everyone, with everything because you are not having some nice and light me time. To evaluate yourself, to analyze what is right and what is wrong, you always should sit for some time at a lonely place where you can think about yourself by yourself. To avoid every contradictory logical opinion of people and to do right question about your situation all you need is Peace to look into your inner self. Try some good alone time and you'll observe that how easy and beautiful this world is. It is also prolific for your overall health and spiritual side.

Whatever you do to impress others, one day you learn that you impress to yourself with great satisfaction and everyone else impress with you with out any effort. 

HAVE A IMPRESSIVE DAY !!

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