We wonder what is special about some people that wherever they go, they always surrounded by people. Obviously every person want to life in the same way, at that instance, the very first question pops up in our mind is how to be so impressive or simply we say, How we impress others?
Lot of Money? A reputable career? Being famous? Alluring Face? Too much show-off?
If your answer are those above written things then wait for a moment, ask someone who have all those things you would be surprised to know that feelings we get from above things are loneliness, no 'me' time and nearly invisible for people around us, slagging you off behind your back and beauty is not long lasting. These are certainly the things that makes you hot topic among people but that's temporary and not truly impressive traits in every case. Impression always, one is good that remains forever after one meet.Also it is inevitable that there are many peoples who have above things but they still extremely impressive. Evidently they know what others know lesser or not at all.There is no shortcut but to learn things responsible for an impressive personality.
Observe these following steps and that'd help you to get all the mentioned things with an impression-:
Believe In Yourself, Do What Are You Good At
If you want that people get impress with you that means they believe in you that you are the best. For that first you have to believe in yourself and you have to take step forward for work in which you can do best. It is obvious that if you would give your best effort with your talent, result will be the best in your favor accordingly and you'll be the trend among people because of the same reason.
Listen And Speak
You really are a person who listens everyone meticulously and give importance to everyone's opinion, express this quality of yours by listen silently! As they say "Silence talks more than noise". People feel thank you for listening to them. Once you heard their issue now it's time to respond positively and try to be optimistic during talk, give them positive vibes and let them know that you care for their opinions as well. You will see soon that how everyone begin to share talks with you.
Smile And Be Cheerful
How do you like someone with a angry or lament face every time you get to see them? Of course you would find it annoying. The point is clear, put a smile on your face and people just come to you for greetings first without any logical reason & that's the beauty of a smiley cheerful face! So be happy and also this will keep you healthy in both ways, physically and socially.
Be Honest, Maintain Individuality
There is a concept very famous now a days among personality development classes and yes very hard to follow, known as "Fence Sitting".Fence sitting is all about to deal in social culture but with in a limit. It's too tough to say negative about some opinion with which you can't agree because you know it is wrong? You support a person just because he is friend to you and you don't want to lose him? Well it is bad news for you because then you are not longer honest with yourself and you are all set to lost the prerogative to make a point on your front. Remember you are in existence and you can't consider something right which is totally wrong about someone or you.
Second thing comes individuality. Don't take too much interest to discuss someone's private matter and don't be the part of a gossip group. Gimmick leads you to a wasteful personality. Next time advice to nosy neighbors to mind their own work and they will come to know how honest, faithful and man of self respect are you.
Get Some 'Me' Time
Last time when did you go for a hangout with you,do you remember? If your answer is no then what really you need is a break! with everyone, with everything because you are not having some nice and light me time. To evaluate yourself, to analyze what is right and what is wrong, you always should sit for some time at a lonely place where you can think about yourself by yourself. To avoid every contradictory logical opinion of people and to do right question about your situation all you need is Peace to look into your inner self. Try some good alone time and you'll observe that how easy and beautiful this world is. It is also prolific for your overall health and spiritual side.
Whatever you do to impress others, one day you learn that you impress to yourself with great satisfaction and everyone else impress with you with out any effort.
HAVE A IMPRESSIVE DAY !!
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